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Mediation

One table, one neutral lawyer, both of you

In mediation I don't represent either of you. I run the session, keep it on the agenda you chose, and write down what you agree.

Mediation is for couples and parents who'd rather settle than fight, or who need help with the one or two issues they're stuck on. Sessions run three hours, by video or in my office, and you can split the fee any way you like.

A person on a pink sofa gestures toward a laptop showing two men on a video call

A session

Three hours, in three parts

  1. 01

    Step 1: Before

    Each of you sends me, separately, the issues you want settled and any papers that matter.

  2. 02

    Step 2: During

    We work through the agenda together, with private breaks when either of you needs one.

  3. 03

    Step 3: After

    You both get a written summary of what you agreed and what's left open.

Mediation fees

How mediation is billed

  • The session

    A flat fee for each 3-hour session. Both of you, one neutral lawyer, and the issues you choose to settle. Split the fee however you like.

    • Agenda agreed before the session

    • Video or in person

    • Written summary of what you agreed

    Book mediation
  • The agreement

    A flat fee to draft what you settled, ready for each of your lawyers to review. Filing it for you is not included.

    • Drafted from the session summary

    • One round of changes

    • Ready to file with a divorce or parenting plan

    Ask about drafting

Court filing fees and the cost of serving papers go to the court and the server, not to me, and aren't in any flat fee.

Mediation questions

Mediation, asked plainly

Can you advise me during mediation?

No. As the mediator I stay neutral. You can each have your own lawyer review the agreement before you sign.

Is what we say kept private?

Mediation sessions are generally confidential, with some limits set by law. I'll go over them at the start of the first session.

What if one session isn't enough?

Book another. Each session is priced the same, and many couples need two.

Settle what you can, by the session

Tell me the issues you're stuck on. I'll tell you how many sessions it usually takes and what each one costs.